PillBoxer wrote: ↑
Sun May 26, 2019 6:26 am
It's just not hard to get action without paying for if if that's all that you want.
First of all, for many people today, it is
hard. We call them incels. And it's apparently a growing demographic.
Second of all, I personally do not merely want "action". I've been having action since 1995. What I want today is the cream of the crop
. I want to fulfill all my wildest sexual fantasies. And that is not easy, and certainly not without great investment in time and effort, and certainly not on a regular basis at the drop of a hat, as I would ideally like to have it. If I can get 7s and 8s with some effort, I certainly can't easily get 9s and 10s, and if a 10 came up to me and said "You can have me all day long for a few hundred", I wouldn't mind at all, and certainly wouldn't feel any shame about it. I'd feel lucky and privileged. I spend dozens of hours daygaming per month to get the 7s and the 8s, and maybe a couple times a year a 9 and a 10. And that's without counting all the texting and dating and drama and bullshit I have to put up with. Sometimes, with a cool girl, it's all smooth sailing and very enjoyable, but I can count on the fingers of one hand the 9s and 10s I've had in my life that have been cool and wonderful. I certainly don't have one of them right now, and who knows how many months of approaches and bad proto-relationships I'll have to go through to find the next one.
So I understand that some people have issues with P4P, and that's okay, but other people have no issues at all, and that should be okay too between men, especially given that we're talking about mankind's proverbial oldest profession here. It isn't going away anytime soon, and we really
should have gotten over this issue by now.
So it's cool to dislike it, just as I dislike Christianity and Christians, but we should still all be able to co-exist in a single forum. When I see a Christian preaching on RVF, it annoys me quite a bit, but then I skip over it, and click somewhere else, and the same should be done about P4P in this forum by whoever has an issue with it. And I'll make sure that the P4P advocates do not plaster their P4P opinions in every single thread, just as I will make sure that the religious nutjobs don't plaster their sermons in every single thread.
And everything will work out well in the end for everyone, and we'll all be a big happy family.
Having said all that, there IS a place where people can argue about the very CONCEPT of P4P, and its pros and cons, and that's this very thread right here. As long as we do our best to maintain civility towards each other, we should be free to argue back and forth on this issue in here for ever.